After several years of dating my childhood crush, Jason Matthew, I married him July 7, 2007. And though many things have changed in our lives since then, one thing has remained constant: our love (for better or worse, for richer or poorer, all the days of our lives).
We found out that we were expecting our first child December 15, 2007 and were ecstatic. I experienced no complications throughout the pregnancy but prenatal testing discovered that I was a carrier of the CF gene. Upon receiving these unexpected results, the doctor requested Jay be tested as well. The results determined that he was also a carrier of the CF gene. At first we were devastated but then we began to ask a million questions. What did these results entail for our unborn child? We began to explore the possibilities There was a 25% chance that our child would have CF, a 50% chance that our child would be a carrier of the CF gene like us, and a 25% that our child would not carry either CF gene). We decided not to undergo amniocentesis testing or chorionic villus sampling to determine the exact outcome because nothing could be changed and it was not worth the risk.
On August, 25, 2008, my husband and I welcomed our son, Nathan Parker Skretkowicz, into our lives. Nathan arrived full term, weighing 7 lbs 11 oz. and measuring 21.5 inches long.
Soon after, the doctors became concerned that Nathan was not gaining weight properly. After a series of inconclusive Sweat Tests, his blood was tested for the presence of specific CF genes and when he was one month of age (September 29, 2008), Nathan was officially diagnosed with CF.
CF is a life shortening, genetic disease where the body produces unusually thick mucus. This thick mucus clogs the lungs and leads to life threatening lung infections. It also obstructs the pancreas and prevents enzymes from helping the body break down and absorb food.
A typical day caring for Nathan includes several nebulizer treatments to open his airways followed by chest percussion therapy (CPT) to break up the mucus in his lungs. After CPT, he gets another nebulizer treatment of antibiotic to eradicate bacteria in his tiny lungs. In order for Nathan to digest and absorb the food he consumes, he must take enzyme capsules with each meal, currently 16 capsules per day. He gets supplements of salt daily because he does not retain as much salt as other individuals, and he gets special vitamins which include fat soluble vitamins that he has trouble absorbing. Currently, during the at risk season, Nathan receives monthly injections to protect him from RSV, a virus that could cause serious lung infection and potentially death.
I am trying to be as proactive as a mother in my attempt to help Nathan fight CF. I know God will not abandon me or my family on this journey even though the health of my son and the financial state of my family is a constant worry.













11 comments:
Nice work, Christina and Jay. God Bless your happy little family. Nathan is GOD'S BLESSING not only to you but to me and many others as well. He has touched, and continues to touch, many people. I love you all. You are in my prayers DAILY...
Daddy
Came upon your blog through Stellan's page, you were the comment above mine that MckMama suggested we pray for.
Sounds like it's been quite the fight. I noticed that Nathan was officially diagnosed the same day my son was prenatally diagnosed with his cystic hygroma. Wow, God picked me to pray for your family! I'm honored!
Lots of prayers comin your way sis.
Andie
www.johnsonfamilyarchive.blogspot.com
You are an inspiring mother...with a beautiful family....thank you for blogging.
Beautiful boy...beautiful family...
You are in my prayers...
I saw your comment on Nate's blog and saw that you are a CF Momma too:) I have an almost 2 year old son with CF. You can check out his blog at www.acure4lilchris.com. I look forward to reading your blog and getting to know you. Hopefully we can help each other out;-) Do you mind if I link your blog to mine???
M
Visiting you from my friend Carla's page. You have a beautiful family and will be in my prayers.
I, too, am a CF mommy. Samuel, my darling baby boy, is 19 months old. We received his diagnosis at 15 days through newborn screening. Through God's might hand, the requirement went into effect in our state the day we were leaving the hospital, 11/1/07. While this is not what I would have chosen for my son, I trust God and will follow His will for our lives. I know this will all be for His glory and honor. Thanks for your encouragement.
hi! i came across your blog through mckmama. i have worked in a cf center here in mn for close to 9 years. cf is scary and sad. in all of this, it's so good to know that God is God and he is bigger than all this! you are in good hands: not only the drs, but most importantly, the Great Physician.
you are an inspiration to many mommies and people out there. God is always with you!
Hello Christina,
I came over to your blog from McMama. I have been a CF mom the last 31 years. There has been soooooooooo much progress in CF care since my daughter Mandy was born back then. Unfortunately, she only lived 5 months. I have 3 sons wo/cf and a 23 yosw/CF. He has been evaluated for a double lung transplant, but is doing well enough that he is not listed as of now. If you ever want to talk, I would be happy to listen and share. Have you ever joined Cystic-L? I have been a member about 10 years and have gotten so much support for the other patients and parents there. The only way I have survived the last 31 years fighting this constant battle is through the power of my relationship with Jesus. I don't know how people without faith cope with a child's illness. Blessings to you and Jason and Nathan.
Linda Crane
Mother of Mandy (with the angels) Kyle, Hunter and Brady wo/cf and Jamie, 23, w/cf 2X Delta F 508
You are an inspiration. I know a family with a daughter with CF and she is now in her twenties studying to be a pharmacist. Don't give up hope and keep fighting.
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